Happy Thanksgiving from these turkeys!

My PurplePeggaPuppy
Her first season of soccer has come and gone. She was named the “Most Improved Player” by her coaches and was told she should continue to focus on hustling.



She just signed up to play again in the fall…we’ll continue practicing an hustling to get ready for the next season!
Parting Ways After Two Decades
Last week, we said goodbye to our ’99 civic; the same civic that my parents bought me when I was a junior in college! From the age of 20 to age 39, she was a part of me! Seriously, how crazy is that! I owned that car for half my life! It was a great car for a college student and even into my young adulthood. This was the car that I picked Justin up in when we went out on “dates” in college. This was the car that we drove to many of concerts at Nissan Pavilion and used for our tailgates. This was the car that I got into two accidents on the same day (that story for another day)! In recent years, it has been a great car for our au pairs. But in recent years, it has also been the source of disbelief and contention that as almost 40 year olds Justin and I would still have to drive the civic to work about once a week. We have tossed out the idea of replacing it for the last three or so years and each time, we have decided to keep the civic just a little longer. UNTIL last week…when it broke down….$800 to fix it tipped the scale of what we were willing to pay. So after 19 years we said one last goodbye to our civic as it sat in the car shop where it was towed after it broke down.
It was a good ride!
A Bumble Bee, a Dragon, and a Bride
The girls all chose their costumes early this year….as in mid-September!
Avery and Harper made their costume decisions upon arriving in the costume section of Hanna Anderson last month. 
Emerson decided she wanted to be a bride around the same time and I searched on Amazon to find the perfect dress. My mom spent HOURS hemming it….all five layers of it! She was all about posing! A little foresight into the future. Seriously gorgeous!
The girls and Larrisa.
Slowly adding one more adult at a time to the picture.

While I was weak in my Halloween costume this year, I was strong in my cul-de-sac socializing. We trick or treated for an hour and then proceeded to spend five more hours hanging out by the bonfire. I’m still not even sure how that is possible. The girls went to bed much earlier than that…fortunately Larrisa was willing to go in early and give the girls shower and put them to bed! TREAT! All night, I was living in the moment and so appreciative of the wonderful neighborhood we live in and I didn’t want to miss a minute.
The girls all filled their pumpkin and had a great time trick-or-treating and hanging out with our awesome neighborhood.
Great Country Farm
Apple Cider Press Demonstration
Cinderella’s Pumpkin Carriage
Obstacle courses
Slides
Corn Fields
Farm animals including a filthy pig
Cool barns and doors
Rope Swings
Wagon rides
Apple picking
Some were more appreciated than others.




The fan favorites amongst the girls were the roasting marshmellows, the jumping pumpkin, and the roller scooters. Who could argue with the girls on the roller scooters….that was mom’s favorite too!



Justin’s favorite was the filet at Tuscorara Mill….a spontaneous decision to eat in Leesburg and an awesome surprise to find out that the café section serves the full dinner menu in the evening! 
Happy Daddy!
It was a muddy but great family day at Great Country Farm in Bluemont, VA.
New York
I’ve been looking at old blogs recently. My love for the girls and life was so fierce and passionate. I loved the girls so much that I literally wanted to squeeze them so hard sometimes – my patience and love extraordinary for my tiny humans. Fast forward the past few years and somehow they have grown up before my eyes. Yes, they are still little but they are far from toddlers. They whine, they don’t appreciate, and they fight a lot….it drives Justin and I insane sometimes and I turn into a mom, a person I never thought I would be. I’m rude to them, short with them, and honestly I want to just yell and say to them “what the f**k is wrong with you.” I hate that version of me…it is not who I am or who I aspire to be. The girls are not going to get any younger so I need to figure it out…need to figure out how to be that mom that I once was – the mom who simply adored her children, the mom who literally couldn’t stop smiling when she looked and thought of her kids.
This past weekend we went to New York City for the weekend and it wasn’t a good weekend. It makes me sad to write that, to think that, but it is true. We had good moments but the truth is every wrong turn, bad meal, or change of plans got to each of us this weekend. We will go again to NY….it won’t be tomorrow but we will go and the ugly of this trip will long be forgotten. Pictures were far and few between but there were a few – and this is how we will likely remember this trip in the days to come.











And we will end this on a scrumptious mouth watering worth every calorie cookie because for those few minutes I was in complete and utter decadent bliss!
10 Year Anniversary
I have always said that I could live in Colorado. Ironically, I had never been to Colorado. So when it came time to planning our 10 year anniversary trip, we opted for the Colorado mountains instead of our typical tropical destination.
We wanted hiking, good food, beautiful scenery, and just a tad of relaxation.
Hiking – The hiking and the beautiful scenery were pretty much one in the same, granted we did see some amazing views when we weren’t hiking. We took a total of five hikes, all quite different in nature.
Hike 1 – Maroon Bells (11 miles outside Aspen)
Once we decided we were going to Colorado, Maroon Bells became a must visit. We opted to visit Colorado on one of the busiest fall weekends of the year. While the bus lines to get to Maroon Bells were longer than normal, the lines moved pretty quickly and we started our hike through the bells at about 9:30 a.m. It was simply amazing. We experienced amazing views and had a great time hiking for three hours.










Hike 2 – Hunter Creek Trail (Aspen)
Our original plan was to hike Hanging Lake trail in Glenwood Canyon; however, it was closed for construction so the concierge recommended a trail in Aspen. We started our hike around 8:30 and Justin and I first thought it would be a relatively easy hike based on how it started out. The hike kept getting better and better. There were not many people on the trail on our hike up and a few times we questioned if we were going the right direction. When we arrived at the observation deck, I was in disbelief. I don’t know what I was expecting, but certainly not to see the entire city of Aspen.










Hike 3 – Grizzly Creek Trail (Glenwood Canyon)
This was another hike that we did as an alternative after not being able to get into the parking lot (it was full) of Hanging Lake. We hiked along a creek for 45 minutes each way.


Hike 4 – Palmer Trail in Garden of Gods Park (Colorado Springs)
We started our hike at about 8:50. While this was relatively the same time we started or prior hikes, the temperatures in Colorado Springs were much warmer than Aspen. For two hours, we were hiking among red mountains. To arrive at this destination (Siamese Twins) was amazing.









Hike 5 – Manitou Springs Incline (Manitou Springs – 8 miles outside Colorado Springs)
As if our morning hike wasn’t enough, Justin and I challenged ourself to hike the Manitou Springs Incline, 2500 stairs to the mountain summit. We paced ourselves and took breaks frequently, monitoring our heart rates the whole time for some HITT training. We had just reached the lower summit, about 2100 stairs, when the skies looked like they were about to open up. We made the hard decision to take the trail down from the lower summit instead of reaching the upper summit. It was a tough decision because while physically it was challenging, we know we absolutely could have finished and would have had it not been about to storm. The 400 additional steps and the trail down were estimated to take an additional hour (two more hours) had we chosen to continue. And while we had been prepared with our raincoats and emergency gear for every other one of our hikes, Justin chose to take his raincoat our of his camelback earlier that morning. The hike took us a total of two hours.





With each hike, I had fun taking selfies.











With each hike, I felt such a sense of accomplishment. Seriously we hiked on average three hours a day. The hikes were challenging but we felt good during and after our hikes. Justin remarked that he is in the best shape of his life and I would probably venture to say the same for myself.
Each hike was uniquely different, yet each beautiful and scenic. We spent more money than we would like to admit on hiking gear prior to the trip (back packs, hiking shoes, hiking shirt, hiking pants, Patagonia jacket, socks, gloves), but we don’t regret a single purchase. We had the right gear and ALL of it will come in useful for our future hikes, which we plan on doing many. Perhaps they won’t be at the same elevation, but we are going to take advantage of the hiking closer to home. Speaking of elevation, we acclimated pretty well after the initial day we arrived. The day we arrived we drove the three hour drive from Denver to Aspen via Independence Pass, a road that is so dangerous it is only open about half the year. I felt my stomach drop at times during the 20 mile “scary” strip and couldn’t look at the views. We got out at the Independence Pass overlook sign and about 100 steps out of the car later, the altitude got me and I had to sit before returning to the car. Fortunately, we hydrated well, took it easy physically the day we arrived; I refrained from alcohol that night at dinner and adjusted to the altitude by the following day.
Food – Food was by far better in Aspen than Colorado Springs. I read a lot of restaurant reviews on tripadvisor prior to and during our trip so that didn’t really come as a surprise. Justin and I cleaned up well each evening before dinner; yet for some reason I did not take any pictures in the evenings of us dining. Aspen had a ton of excellent food choices so making the decision about which one to go to was hard!
Wild Fig (Aspen) We had reservations at Element 47; however, after walking into the restaurant which was an enclosed space in an upscale hotel, we decided it wasn’t the right spot for us. We had passed by Wild Fig a few times and the menu was calling our name. We ate outside and enjoyed a delicious meal.
The White House Tavern (Aspen) This was actually Justin’s selection. It was the number one rated restaurant on tripadvisor and while it looked good, we only had so many times to eat. I was going to pass this restaurant up until a coworker of Justin’s recommended it as the best chicken sandwich one of his friends had ever eaten. When we arrived back in the town of Aspen Friday from our Maroon Bells hike, we put our name on the wait list and ate a late lunch. This is the chicken sandwich….it didn’t disappoint. My salad was excellent too, although I would have preferred grilled chicken in it instead of pulled chicken, much of which was dark meat. An excellent meal though.

Meat and Cheese (Aspen)Meat and Cheese was another restaurant that we had walked by several times. It was small, quaint, and the menu was right up our alley. We ate outside and enjoyed a delicious dinner our second night.

The Limelight Hotel (Aspen)
This hotel was nice…great spot in the city, great service, and an excellent breakfast included as part of the rate. Since breakfast was included and quite delicious, we ate a big yummy healthy breakfast each morning before setting off to hike. The rate…the rate was insane and Justin and I chose to go all out with the nicest room since it was our anniversary. We typically don’t and while having the fireplace was nice as well as the separate toilet, the truth is we aren’t in the room that much when we go on vacation and the best room was not worth the additional $600 in total that we could have saved. This is especially true for a hotel that is in the city…we need to remind ourselves for future that the smaller room in a nice hotel is our preference. Oh yeah, the bed was very comfortable and Justin and I got about eight hours sleep each night, even waking up around 6:15 a.m.








It was really a great vacation and I feel so blessed that I can finally say I have been to Colorado. This vacation was different than our normal tropical vacation and Justin and I loved every minute of hiking and exploring and our beautiful surroundings. We did miss the girls and talked about them a lot! A LOT as to the point of whether we wanted to add one more to our family! This thought has occurred many times before and this trip was our final yes or no. While it was a difficult decision, we decided our family is great as is and to take advantage of them being older with no more strollers, diapers to change, or babies to carry. With that, I have already been looking at possible vacation spots for our family. I want to explore the world…..now just need to come up with a game plan to make that happen!
Happy Birthday Spookie
(Guest Post – Justin)
Happy 39th Birthday Stefanie. This is the last year of your 30’s and I am about to do something that I constantly advise against . . . a blog post with lots of pictures. I cannot help it (and now I kind of get why you do it) . . . today was a good day.
We started the day with the traditional breakfast in bed and the girls helped by cutting the strawberries.

Larissa had decorated the kitchen last night, so did not want the girls to eat breakfast in there. They went to the craft table and Harper made her own tray.


Little Ms. Avery was still with fever today, so we decided to take it easy (Maddy easy anyway). We started the adventure with cake that Larissa and the girls made yesterday (talking 11 AM!! cake people). The girls shared their presents with Mom. Larissa did an awesome job all week helping the girls with their gifts.


We were off to Meadowlark to hang out and then have a light snack picnic, that way we could still eat for our 4:30 dinner reservations with all the other old people. (Happy 39th Birthday Stefanie).

We even checked out the Atrium where Stefanie and I got married (a week and it will be 10 years!!). Stefanie showed the girls the Bridesmaid room.

After our picnic at Meadowlark we headed off to Gravelly Point to watch the Airplanes take off.

Even this guy was saying Happy Birthday!!

Our 4:30 dinner just wore this little girl out.

I love you more than anything, Happy Birthday Stefanie.

Oakton Elementary: They Are ALL Off
Summer came and went and these girls are ready to embark on the new school year…this time all three girls are in the same school. Avery and Emerson are in 2nd grade and Harper is now in kindergarten. The years are passing bye so quickly…its crazy! Harper didn’t say she was nervous, but she was acting extremely tired all morning…she wouldn’t even smile for the pictures.

Avery was excited for the start of school but as it approached the time to leave for the bus stop, her stomach started to bother her and she kept telling me she was having “nerves”.

Emerson was probably the most excited about school as she loves the social aspect.

All three girls together at Oakton Elementary school this year!


As usual, I had my workout clothes on and Emerson could not believe that I had not showered and was going to take them to the bus stop in my workout clothes. Its my uniform on my work from home days so she is used to it, but apparently still doesn’t approve.

Me, Larrissa, and the girls. Larrissa is going to have to get accustomed to her new schedule and having time off during the day! She spent some time today organizing the art supplies!

Pic with Daddy.

And the whole family.

I wanted a family picture of us making funny faces but Justin jumped out of the picture too quickly and it was just me and the girls.

After pictures, the girls set off to walk to the bus stop.

Harper saw a dirt pile that she stopped briefly to check out.

But quickly realized her sisters were still walking.

And she took off after them. This picture makes me smile.

Emerson realizes Harper is behind and stops to help her get her back pack on properly.

Avery meanwhile looks on, not offering to help.

Mom and Larissa follow. I brought watermelon this year as our contribution to the bus stop breakfast.


All the kids from the neighborhood at OES.

And then they were off to learn, grow, be challenged, make friends, and make this world a better place.
Vanish…again

This time with the Nowaks and Tarrs!