Arlington National Cemetery

After a rainy dreary LAZY Saturday where showers and dressing in real clothes was overrated, we welcomed the sunny warm day today and being OUTSIDE!  We took the girls to Arlington National Cemetery.  We saw the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier and The Changing of the Guard, the John F. Kennedy Gravesite, and walked along the paths of tombstones of those who honorably served our nation.

It was a beautiful day and I love instilling a little bit about our nations history and those who give the ultimate sacrifice to serve our country.

My PurplePeggaPuppy

Her first season of soccer has come and gone.  She was named the “Most Improved Player” by her coaches and was told she should continue to focus on hustling.

She just signed up to play again in the fall…we’ll continue practicing an hustling to get ready for the next season!

Parting Ways After Two Decades

Last week, we said goodbye to our ’99 civic; the same civic that my parents bought me when I was a junior in college!  From the age of 20 to age 39, she was a part of me!  Seriously, how crazy is that!  I owned that car for half my life!  It was a great car for a college student and even into my young adulthood.  This was the car that I picked Justin up in when we went out on “dates” in college.  This was the car that we drove to many of concerts at Nissan Pavilion and used for our tailgates.  This was the car that I got into two accidents on the same day (that story for another day)!  In recent years, it has been a great car for our au pairs.  But in recent years, it has also been the source of disbelief and contention that as almost 40 year olds Justin and I would still have to drive the civic to work about once a week. We have tossed out the idea of replacing it for the last three or so years and each time, we have decided to keep the civic just a little longer.  UNTIL last week…when it broke down….$800 to fix it tipped the scale of what we were willing to pay. So after 19 years we said one last goodbye to our civic as it sat in the car shop where it was towed after it broke down.

It was a good ride!

A Bumble Bee, a Dragon, and a Bride

The girls all chose their costumes early this year….as in mid-September!Avery and Harper made their costume decisions upon arriving in the costume section of Hanna Anderson last month. Emerson decided she wanted to be a bride around the same time and I searched on Amazon to find the perfect dress.  My mom spent HOURS hemming it….all five layers of it! She was all about posing!   A little foresight into the future.  Seriously gorgeous!The girls and Larrisa.Slowly adding one more adult at a time to the picture.

While I was weak in my Halloween costume this year, I was strong in my cul-de-sac socializing.  We trick or treated for an hour and then proceeded to spend five more hours hanging out by the bonfire.  I’m still not even sure how that is possible.  The girls went to bed much earlier than that…fortunately Larrisa was willing to go in early and give the girls shower and put them to bed!  TREAT!  All night, I was living in the moment and so appreciative of the wonderful neighborhood we live in and I didn’t want to miss a minute.

The girls all filled their pumpkin and had a great time trick-or-treating and hanging out with our awesome neighborhood.

 

Great Country Farm

Apple Cider Press Demonstration

Cinderella’s Pumpkin Carriage

Obstacle courses

Slides

Corn Fields

Farm animals including a filthy pig

Cool barns and doors

Rope Swings

Wagon rides

Apple picking

Some were more appreciated than others.

The fan favorites amongst the girls were the roasting marshmellows, the jumping pumpkin, and the roller scooters.  Who could argue with the girls on the roller scooters….that was mom’s favorite too!

Justin’s favorite was the filet at Tuscorara Mill….a spontaneous decision to eat in Leesburg and an awesome surprise to find out that the café section serves the full dinner menu in the evening! 

Happy Daddy!

It was a muddy but great family day at Great Country Farm in Bluemont, VA.

New York

I’ve been looking at old blogs recently. My love for the girls and life was so fierce and passionate. I loved the girls so much that I literally wanted to squeeze them so hard sometimes – my patience and love extraordinary for my tiny humans. Fast forward the past few years and somehow they have grown up before my eyes. Yes, they are still little but they are far from toddlers. They whine, they don’t appreciate, and they fight a lot….it drives Justin and I insane sometimes and I turn into a mom, a person I never thought I would be. I’m rude to them, short with them, and honestly I want to just yell and say to them “what the f**k is wrong with you.” I hate that version of me…it is not who I am or who I aspire to be. The girls are not going to get any younger so I need to figure it out…need to figure out how to be that mom that I once was – the mom who simply adored her children, the mom who literally couldn’t stop smiling when she looked and thought of her kids.

This past weekend we went to New York City for the weekend and it wasn’t a good weekend. It makes me sad to write that, to think that, but it is true. We had good moments but the truth is every wrong turn, bad meal, or change of plans got to each of us this weekend.  We will go again to NY….it won’t be tomorrow but we will go and the ugly of this trip will long be forgotten. Pictures were far and few between but there were a few – and this is how we will likely remember this trip in the days to come.

And we will end this on a scrumptious mouth watering worth every calorie cookie because for those few minutes I was in complete and utter decadent bliss!

10 Year Anniversary

I have always said that I could live in Colorado.  Ironically, I had never been to Colorado. So when it came time to planning our 10 year anniversary trip, we opted for the Colorado mountains instead of our typical tropical destination.

We wanted hiking, good food, beautiful scenery, and just a tad of relaxation.

Hiking – The hiking and the beautiful scenery were pretty much one in the same, granted we did see some amazing views when we weren’t hiking.  We took a total of five hikes, all quite different in nature.

Hike 1 – Maroon Bells (11 miles outside Aspen)
Once we decided we were going to Colorado, Maroon Bells became a must visit.  We opted to visit Colorado on one of the busiest fall weekends of the year.  While the bus lines to get to Maroon Bells were longer than normal, the lines moved pretty quickly and we started our hike through the bells at about 9:30 a.m.  It was simply amazing.   We experienced amazing views and had a great time hiking for three hours.

Hike 2 – Hunter Creek Trail (Aspen)
Our original plan was to hike Hanging Lake trail in Glenwood Canyon; however, it was closed for construction so the concierge recommended a trail in Aspen.  We started our hike around 8:30 and Justin and I first thought it would be a relatively easy hike based on how it started out.  The hike kept getting better and better.  There were not many people on the trail on our hike up and a few times we questioned if we were going the right direction.  When we arrived at the observation deck, I was in disbelief.  I don’t know what I was expecting, but certainly not to see the entire city of Aspen.

Hike 3 – Grizzly Creek Trail (Glenwood Canyon)
This was another hike that we did as an alternative after not being able to get into the parking lot (it was full) of Hanging Lake.  We hiked along a creek for 45 minutes each way.

Hike 4 – Palmer Trail in Garden of Gods Park (Colorado Springs)
We started our hike at about 8:50.  While this was relatively the same time we started or prior hikes, the temperatures in Colorado Springs were much warmer than Aspen.  For two hours, we were hiking among red mountains.  To arrive at this destination (Siamese Twins) was amazing.

Hike 5 – Manitou Springs Incline (Manitou Springs – 8 miles outside Colorado Springs)
As if our morning hike wasn’t enough, Justin and I challenged ourself to hike the Manitou Springs Incline, 2500 stairs to the mountain summit.  We paced ourselves and took breaks frequently, monitoring our heart rates the whole time for some HITT training. We had just reached the lower summit, about 2100 stairs, when the skies looked like they were about to open up.  We made the hard decision to take the trail down from the lower summit instead of reaching the upper summit.  It was a tough decision because while physically it was challenging, we know we absolutely could have finished and would have had it not been about to storm. The 400 additional steps and the trail down were estimated to take an additional hour (two more hours) had we chosen to continue.  And while we had been prepared with our raincoats and emergency gear for every other one of our hikes, Justin chose to take his raincoat our of his camelback earlier that morning. The hike took us a total of two hours.

With each hike, I had fun taking selfies.

With each hike, I felt such a sense of accomplishment. Seriously we hiked on average three hours a day.  The hikes were challenging but we felt good during and after our hikes.  Justin remarked that he is in the best shape of his life and I would probably venture to say the same for myself.

Each hike was uniquely different, yet each beautiful and scenic. We spent more money than we would like to admit on hiking gear prior to the trip (back packs, hiking shoes, hiking shirt, hiking pants, Patagonia jacket, socks, gloves), but we don’t regret a single purchase.  We had the right gear and ALL of it will come in useful for our future hikes, which we plan on doing many.  Perhaps they won’t be at the same elevation, but we are going to take advantage of the hiking closer to home.  Speaking of elevation, we acclimated pretty well after the initial day we arrived. The day we arrived we drove the three hour drive from Denver to Aspen via Independence Pass, a road that is so dangerous it is only open about half the year.  I felt my stomach drop at times during the 20 mile “scary” strip and couldn’t look at the views.  We got out at the Independence Pass overlook sign and about 100 steps out of the car later, the altitude got me and I had to sit before returning to the car.  Fortunately, we hydrated well, took it easy physically the day we arrived; I refrained from alcohol that night at dinner and adjusted to the altitude by the following day.

Food  Food was by far better in Aspen than Colorado Springs.  I read a lot of restaurant reviews on tripadvisor prior to and during our trip so that didn’t really come as a surprise.  Justin and I cleaned up well each evening before dinner; yet for some reason I did not take any pictures in the evenings of us dining. Aspen had a ton of excellent food choices so making the decision about which one to go to was hard!

Wild Fig (Aspen) We had reservations at Element 47; however, after walking into the restaurant which was an enclosed space in an upscale hotel, we decided it wasn’t the right spot for us.  We had passed by Wild Fig a few times and the menu was calling our name. We ate outside and enjoyed a delicious meal.

The White House Tavern (Aspen) This was actually Justin’s selection.  It was the number one rated restaurant on tripadvisor and while it looked good, we only had so many times to eat.  I was going to pass this restaurant up until a coworker of Justin’s recommended it as the best chicken sandwich one of his friends had ever eaten.  When we arrived back in the town of Aspen Friday from our Maroon Bells hike, we put our name on the wait list and ate a late lunch.  This is the chicken sandwich….it didn’t disappoint.  My salad was excellent too, although I would have preferred grilled chicken in it instead of pulled chicken, much of which was dark meat.  An excellent meal though.

Meat and Cheese (Aspen)Meat and Cheese was another restaurant that we had walked by several times.  It was small, quaint, and the menu was right up our alley.  We ate outside and enjoyed a delicious dinner our second night.

Glenwood Canyon Brewery (Glenwood Canyon) Saturday morning we headed to Glenwood Canyon, about an hours drive from Aspen.  The restaurants in the area were just okay so we settled on Glenwood Canyon knowing the highlight would probably be the beer.  The food was okay but it met expectations.  We were in and out of there pretty quickly allowing us to get to our next adventure.

Matsuhisa (Aspen) We had reservations for this place, restaurant of world renowned chef Nobu Matsuhisa, which was upscale and highly rated.  Food was delicious.  Service was a different story.  I want to say it was bad (it was) but odd probably better describes it.  We walked in and the hostess kind of ignored us for a minute after we told her we had reservations.  Finally we were led to the table by the other hostess and he literally plopped the menus on the table while Justin and I took our own seat.  We sat there for a few wondering if we should pick up the menus since not a word was said by him (i.e. enjoy, your server will be right with you, etc.).  We decided not to.  When our waitress came, she simply asked if we knew what we wanted to drink.  At that point, we figured we better pick up the menu.  There were a ton of specials but she didn’t go over any of them or even make reference to the fact that they had specials.  When I asked a question about one of the entrees, she answered my question but chose not to elaborate about any of the other items which would have made sense since clearly this place and menu was new to me from my question.  I will say the bus boys were great and on top of refilling our waters and clearing plates.  We ordered four basic sushi rolls and split one tenderloin entree (6 oz. of steak with vegetables).   A modest amount of food in my opinion yet twice, she seriously told us we had ordered a lot of food, almost in a way that she was calling us fatties!   I’m still in disbelief as I write this.  We go out for sushi at home a lot and I often think too myself how much more other people order in comparison to us.  While we truly didn’t order a lot, what if we had!  Again, very odd.  The food really was delicious. Our favorite roll was the shrimp tempura.  It was warm and included a piece of asparagus giving it an excellent crunch.  Delicious food but way to pretentious and stuck up for me.  I like personable service and this was far from it.

 

Tapateria (Colorado Springs)
This was more of a cafe serving tapas.  It was good, certainly not great. If this restaurant were in Aspen, it would not have even made my list, but the restaurants in Colorado Springs were just lacking in terms of the ones that Justin and I normally enjoy.  So with reset expectations and taking literally all day to even settle on this one, it was good.   This was our final meal in Colorado Springs.

 

As for the rest of our meals in Colorado Springs, we made do.  We stopped at the store and bought fage Greek yogurts and strawberries that we ate for breakfast.  The night before we ate at the hotel lounge.  Our expectations weren’t too high so we shared three small plates and had a drink (after having some veggies and hummus in the hotel room that we had bought earlier in the day).  We opted for a late lunch Monday so we could do both hikes first. Based on where the restaurants in Colorado Springs were there wasn’t a true downtown area…well there was but when we finally found it it was kind of run down.  We walked in and out of the few restaurants that I had finally thought may be a good option.  It was nearing 3:00 and Justin could have probably eaten his left arm by now so we popped into a brewery (Colorado Crafthouse).  If we ate lunch there, being that it was 3:00, this would have been our last meal in Colorado Springs.  The menu just did not excite me so after ordering a flight for me and two beers for Justin, we decided to order the nachos (something we never do but seemed kind of fun and okay since it was our lunch and we had truly burned some calories) and then find a better option for dinner.

Hotels

The Limelight Hotel (Aspen)

This hotel was nice…great spot in the city, great service, and an excellent breakfast included as part of the rate.  Since breakfast was included and quite delicious, we ate a big yummy healthy breakfast each morning before setting off to hike.  The rate…the rate was insane and Justin and I chose to go all out with the nicest room since it was our anniversary.  We typically don’t and while having the fireplace was nice as well as the separate toilet, the truth is we aren’t in the room that much when we go on vacation and the best room was not worth the additional $600 in total that we could have saved.  This is especially true for a hotel that is in the city…we need to remind ourselves for future that the smaller room in a nice hotel is our preference.  Oh yeah, the bed was very comfortable and Justin and I got about eight hours sleep each night, even waking up around 6:15 a.m.

Garden of the Gods Resort (Colorado Springs)
Clearly this hotel has the word resort in it, but I’m not sure I truly thought about what that entailed.  Our room was enormous with a walk in closet bigger than our closet at home.  Our balcony had a beautiful view of the mountains.  The amenities were great and we took advantage of going to the hotel gym (three short workouts) and sitting by the infinity pool. While our room was great and the price tag far cheaper than the price tag of The Limelight Hotel, the truth still remains that we don’t need the best room.  We are out and about most our time on vacation and really spend so little time in our room.  Oh yeah, the bed at this hotel was also was very comfortable and Justin and I got about eight hours sleep each night, even waking up by 7:00 a.m.  The comfortable king beds at both hotels had Justin and I re-visit the discussion of getting a king bed and new bedding for our bedroom.  The verdict is still out though.

Other
Independence Pass
Glad we drove this way, but probably a one time thing in my opinion.  The rest of the drive in from Denver to Aspen was truly just as amazing, and not as frightening!  The time spent in the car from Denver to Aspen and Glenwoood Canyon to Colorado Springs was truly breathtaking,
Aspen Museum
We stopped in the Aspen Art Museum, a free muesuem Friday night prior to dinner.  It was small so we were able to explore the whole thing in less than 45 minutes.  Justin enjoys art much more than I do; however, I like to go knowing he appreciates it.

 

Iron Mountain Hot Springs
I’m not sure what I was thinking when I gave our travel agent the go ahead to purchase these tickets for us.  I guess its safe to say I wasn’t thinking.  Had I done the research I would have realized this was a big party fest where people drink in hot tubs.  The idea is kind of cool, but not what we were interested in spending our time on.  We had already purchased the tickets ($25 each) so we went and dipped in a few different pools and easdropped on a few awkward conversations for 45 minutes before taking off.

 

Tram and Cave
Same story here as the hot springs.  If I had done the research, I would have realized the tram (which by the way Justin and I hate those sort of heights) took us to the top of the mountain which was an amusement park.  Again, cool idea if you are wanting to spend the day there with your family doing rides and games, but again not really our cup of tea.  We had already purchased the tickets for the tram ride and the cave tour ($29 each).  As for the cave tour, it was cool, but we have already been to Luray Caverns and we aren’t exactly excited by that sort of stuff (granted I admit it is amazing) so again I have no idea why I had our travel agent book it for us.  The only thing I can think of are I’m not sure I realized booking it would be an actual charge (I think I thought it was more of a reservation that could be cancelled).  Second I think I probably thought it was an easy add on since we would already be in that location from  Hanging Lake.  However, Hanging Lake was closed for four days and when it re-opened Sunday, we still were not able to get in.

 

It was really a great vacation and I feel so blessed that I can finally say I have been to Colorado.  This vacation was different than our normal tropical vacation and Justin and I loved every minute of hiking and exploring and our beautiful surroundings.  We did miss the girls and talked about them a lot!  A LOT as to the point of whether we wanted to add one more to our family!  This thought has occurred many times before and this trip was our final yes or no.  While it was a difficult decision, we decided our family is great as is and to take advantage of them being older with no more strollers, diapers to change, or babies to carry.  With that, I have already been looking at possible vacation spots for our family.  I want to explore the world…..now just need to come up with a game plan to make that happen!

Happy 10 Year’s together Justin.  It seriously feels like yesterday that we just started dating.  AND that was almost 20 years ago!  You make me a better person.  You are my partner, my teammate.  I love you.  I love our family. I love the life we have created.  And by the way, we had an amazing wedding 😍

Happy Birthday Spookie

(Guest Post – Justin)

Happy 39th Birthday Stefanie.  This is the last year of your 30’s and I am about to do something that I constantly advise against . . . a blog post with lots of pictures.  I cannot help it (and now I kind of get why you do it) . . . today was a good day.

We started the day with the traditional breakfast in bed and the girls helped by cutting the strawberries.

Larissa had decorated the kitchen last night, so did not want the girls to eat breakfast in there.  They went to the craft table and Harper made her own tray.

Little Ms. Avery was still with fever today, so we decided to take it easy (Maddy easy anyway).  We started the adventure with cake that Larissa and the girls made yesterday (talking 11 AM!! cake people).  The girls shared their presents with Mom.  Larissa did an awesome job all week helping the girls with their gifts.

We were off to Meadowlark to hang out and then have a light snack picnic, that way we could still eat for our 4:30 dinner reservations with all the other old people. (Happy 39th Birthday Stefanie).

We even checked out the Atrium where Stefanie and I got married (a week and it will be 10 years!!).  Stefanie showed the girls the Bridesmaid room.

After our picnic at Meadowlark we headed off to Gravelly Point to watch the Airplanes take off.

 

Even this guy was saying Happy Birthday!!

Our 4:30 dinner just wore this little girl out.

I love you more than anything, Happy Birthday Stefanie.

Oakton Elementary: They Are ALL Off

Summer came and went and these girls are ready to embark on the new school year…this time all three girls are in the same school.  Avery and Emerson are in 2nd grade and Harper is now in kindergarten.  The years are passing bye so quickly…its crazy!  Harper didn’t say she was nervous, but she was acting extremely tired all morning…she wouldn’t even smile for the pictures.

Avery was excited for the start of school but as it approached the time to leave for the bus stop, her stomach started to bother her and she kept telling me she was having “nerves”.

Emerson was probably the most excited about school as she loves the social aspect.

All three girls together at Oakton Elementary school this year!

As usual, I had my workout clothes on and Emerson could not believe that I had not showered and was going to take them to the bus stop in my workout clothes.  Its my uniform on my work from home days so she is used to it, but apparently still doesn’t approve.

Me, Larrissa, and the girls.  Larrissa is going to have to get accustomed to her new schedule and having time off during the day!  She spent some time today organizing the art supplies!

Pic with Daddy.

And the whole family.

I wanted a family picture of us making funny faces but Justin jumped out of the picture too quickly and it was just me and the girls.

After pictures, the girls set off to walk to the bus stop.

Harper saw a dirt pile that she stopped briefly to check out.

But quickly realized her sisters were still walking.

And she took off after them.  This picture makes me smile.

Emerson realizes Harper is behind and stops to help her get her back pack on properly.

Avery meanwhile looks on, not offering to help.

Mom and Larissa follow.  I brought watermelon this year as our contribution to the bus stop breakfast.

All the kids from the neighborhood at OES.

And then they were off to learn, grow, be challenged, make friends, and make this world a better place.