Going into the weekend, I knew my favorite weekend of the year was certainly going to look a lot different than our typical Memorial Day weekend….no Viva Vienna, no barbeques with friends and family, no going out to eat or anywhere. But we were determined to make the best of it.

We started our long weekend early Friday by having a wacky school day, which included a visit to the Reston Zoo, a trip we have never done before due to it being overpriced; however, with the zoo being turned into a drive through zoo and very few places to go these days, we figured why not.

Look at this guys hair!!!  It’s gettin BIG!

When we got home…we had two lessons.  The first was a lesson of the importance of brushing one’s teeth!  The second was a creative writing exercise about the girls experience.  Avery did a few types of poems!

Harper’s poem.  I thought a miracle had happened as her spelling was superb…turns out she was asking Google.

Emerson’s acrostic poem.

Saturday brought a family walk through the woods, with the girls complaining about the muddy trail, mud getting on their legs, spiders, branches in the path, the threat of poison ivy, the temperature being too hot, too hilly…and I’m sure there were others.  I threatened to leave them in the woods behind our house to navigate their own way home should the complaints continue.  They knew I would never do that so not sure my “threat” had much of an impact.  We had a good walk nonetheless at least in terms of exercise!

The rest of the afternoon there was a lot of playing outside, bike riding, softball playing, and chapter book reading.

Saturday night we had a delightful charcuterie board with cheeses and meats from a combination of The Oakton Wine Shop and The Italian Gourmet.

We enjoyed a delicious bottle of Pinot Noir and after a glass, I was full of laughs as I rocked my new “garage only” crocks through the neighborhood.  Man I looked ridiculous but I had a great ab workout.

Sunday we picked up some fresh fruit from Depauls. We called our order in and they dropped it in our truck…the norm these days.

We surprised the girls with a trip to Wendy’s drive through and they each indulged in their own frosty and they enjoyed it in the car.

Justin and I had a date night Sunday.  We ordered take-out from Clarity and ate in the “pit”…it was delicious…we will definitely need to do it again!  Meanwhile the girls “watched” themselves with a night full of sugar cereal and binge movie watching.

Justin and I finished our night off with a walk, Nintendo playing, and Netflix watching.  It was certainly a different Memorial Day Weekend than years past, but the girls still rocked their Memorial Day clothing, which had just arrived.  Missing Harper as she had thrown up in the car about 20 minutes before this picture was taken….we think she actually got car sick…having been int the car so little over the last few months!

Memorial Day 2021…hope to be wearing these same shirts celebrating with friends and family.

Wacky school Friday included me taking the day off from work and having quality time with the girls.  It was hot and we took an activity break to walk to the field off Hillington.

These three are mine.  Days are sometimes hard, and I often miss the innocence of the baby and toddler phase.  I miss my perception and ability to experience life through their innocent heart and minds. But then there are times like this…and I just sit staring at the picture, reflecting on the fact that THESE THREE ARE MINE!!

Harper was running wildly through the buttercups, calling me over to each section saying “Mama, aren’t they so beautiful”.  “Yes, Harper…they absolutely are beautiful”.

A gentle reminder that no matter how old they get or how much I miss the baby and toddler phase, life is filled with abundances and beauty – even when babies and toddlers are no longer in the picture – just look at this these buttercups and this cutie!

Today Justin turns 40.  We have been joking about this day for a few years. It’s a running joke that I am 9 months older than Justin.  So me being in my mid-30’s before him was ‘oh so funny’ to him as was each year that passed after that as it just meant I was closer to 40 than him.  Even though we have been nearing 40 the last few years, it still seemed like a distant milestone until all of a sudden it wasn’t.  We are both officially 40…both officially Yung No Mo!

In February, Justin and I decided to go to Charlottesville, VA just the two of us – we were going to stay in a cute cottage slightly off the grid.  The girls were going to stay with my parents and Justin and I were going to have some quality down time together.  We cancelled last month when we realized we were going to be celebrating his birthday in quarantine.

While it wasn’t my birthday and the plans weren’t what we originally anticipated, I think it was a great low-key birthday celebration if I do say so myself!

We kicked off the celebration on Friday when Justin woke up to a massive Happy Birthday sign in our front yard. It came courtesy of Card My Yard and since they were sold out for Saturday, I figured starting the birthday celebration on the 8^th was perfect!

It was a rainy day, but we managed a few pictures and a walk in our neighborhood in between the rain.  

Saturday morning was like Christmas morning.  Bacon in our family equates to Christmas and we had bacon!  Not only bacon, but also sausage, eggs, fruit, and lemon muffins.  We leisurely ate and enjoyed the delicious food and each other’s company.

Presents followed breakfast.  Several shirts were in order as were socks, two koozies, a Golden Girls journal, and a homemade Top 40 card with a Chinese Proverb Yung No Mo that had us hysterical all morning.

The weather was cold today…only around 50 degrees and cold, but there were pockets of sun among the winds and we still took advantage of mother nature with an hour long walk and then a short bike-ride in our neighborhood.

Since we ate a big breakfast at 10:00 a.m., we turned breakfast into brunch and skipped a real lunch.  Instead we surprised Justin with a Ben and Jerry’s ice-cream sundae bar for lunch.  The girls thought it was totally nuts.  It was delicious and fun and so wonderful not to have to make a real lunch for the first time in months!

Brophy and Donald stopped by for a few socially distant driveway beers…an event that if you indicated would be the way they would celebrate together several months ago, I would have thought bummer, but with reset expectations, it was truly wonderful to visit with them…despite the fact that they couldn’t even come in to use our bathroom and had to pee in the woods.

We were going to do dinner in two parts.  First an oaky bottle of Pinot Noir and a charcuterie board with cheeses and salamis that I got from Oakton Wine Shop and Caboose Brewing coupled with a whole wheat boule that I made!  A combination of the wine, the massive amounts of cheese that we consumed, as well as the thought of not having to clean up a bunch of dinner dishes, made us realize we should turn our charcuterie board into dinner. 

There was no need for a second part…the shrimp and New York Strip would wait until tomorrow.

With full bellies, we had family fun in our make-shift photo booth.  Look at this guy…turning 40 and all has made him turn furry!

Justin’s expression in the last picture sums up how his birthday ended!  We went on a quick after dinner walk in the brisk May cold after our photo booth session and then Justin capped off the night with a few outdoor social distance drinks with a neighbor. Yung No Mo had a great birthday and I think it is “safe” to say, it was one like no other.

The Easter Bunny managed to make an appearance despite stores being limited on items.  He/she even made the girls some pretty nice baskets filled with puffy paints, glues, stickers, bath bombs, Twix, and some books and socks. The girls played by the rules and stayed in their rooms until 9:00, a deal we made since they stayed up to 11:00 Saturday night watching The Greatest Showman.   That gave me a chance to meditate, journal, workout, shower, and even put real clothes and make-up on all before 9:00!

They eagerly crowded the stairs at 9:00 a.m!  They had made notes and pictures for the Easter Bunny Saturday, something they had never done before.  As such they weren’t sure if the Easter Bunny was going to leave the notes and pictures or take them.  We weren’t sure either!

The girls were super excited about their Easter baskets.

Breakfast was pancakes, sausage, and fruit for the girls while Justin and I had some eggs and yogurt respectively.  (We’ve been temporarily moving furniture around during this quarantine…today our breakfast table is in our “living room”).

At 10:10, the girls got on their IPADS and attended Sunday school while Justin and I watched the Church Service while drinking our coffee.

The girls were eager for their Easter Egg Hunt and thrilled that I was able to find some Swedish Fish and chocolate candy online. This was the first year without jelly beans; however, the girls understood and were just as excited about the Swedish Fish as a replacement.

The girls cooperated with the obligatory Easter pictures knowing that those must happen before the Easter Egg hunt could begin.

And of course some family pictures were necessary as well.

It was chilly out today causing a last minute wardrobe change for me….my cute jumpsuit turned into jeans last minute, the first time I haven’t worn a dress for Easter in at least five years.

And then finally they were off! 

The girls had their own egg colors for which they were hunting, a tradition we started last year and is liked by all the girls.  Twenty-seven eggs for each girl.

Some candy was enjoyed after the hunt.

A second hunt, a free for all hunt, occurred in the afternoon….about 40 eggs, none of which are color designated per kid.

Claws and tears came out this time!

Whether it was a friendly competition or not was debatable.  They all agreed they like having their own eggs better; yet, I did witness quite a bit of sharing, playing together, and a joyous day by all!

My dad (papa) is 70!  Tuesday was his 70^th birthday!  It doesn’t seem possible, nor does it seem possible that I am 40!  My days have always gone by quick and the months and years even quicker!  In some respects a lot has happened since the days I was a teenager and my dad was in his 40’s.  At the same time, those days still remain vivid memories.  His hair, what is left anyway, is all gray and thin.  Yet in my head, my dad still has a full head of black hair.  My perspective may not be reality; however, it is my reality.

My dad is not a huge partier and originally didn’t want to do anything special for his 70^th other than a simple dinner with family.  However, I think he realized that not only do you turn 70 only once, but that turning 70 is a gift…a gift worth celebrating!  He became excited about the prospect of a celebration and so we decided on dinner at The Palm.  It was supposed to be him, my mom, Justin, myself, the girls, Russell and Mary, and Mike and Susan.  A few weeks ago, we realized that dinner was not going to happen.  We are in midst of a pandemic….schools closed, restaurants closed, workers teleworking, the world social isolating and quarantining.  Even as I type it, this situation seems unreal.

Hugging and kissing are out of the question as is entering my parents house and vice versa.  Sunday we paid a driveway visit to my parents as a way to say hello from afar.  We also dropped off my dad’s present giving it a few days to sit and rid itself of any potential germs.While I am sure my dad was disappointed that we couldn’t celebrate as we originally planned or truly even together, I still wanted to make the day special.  And I think we did.  For surely, it was a unique birthday and one in which I am sure he will never forget!

We started the day with some birthday videos and a FaceTime call.  I ordered crab cakes over the weekend from G&M along with some She-crab soup.  Late afternoon, I made mashed potatoes and garlic green beans and a delicious healthy coconut cake with lemon buttercream.  I cut it in half and we kept half! 

We piled in the van at 5:30 and headed to their house.  We stood at one end of the driveway and them the other.

He opened his presents which included some homemade crafts from the girls and a “vintage 1950’s t-shirt.

He enjoyed the poster that I put together over the weekend that documented his life in pictures from the time he was a little boy!

We “shared” a bottle of wine by bringing our own wine glasses and having a no-touch pour in the middle of the driveway.  The girls decorated the driveway.

My parents enjoyed their dinner together and when it was time for cake, they Facetimed us so we could sing happy birthday again!

We took a break from eating our dinner, which looked identical to theirs! 

We will celebrate at The Palm in time when this all passes.  Until then, I hope he enjoyed the thoughtfulness behind this year’s celebration.

Third child syndrome.  It’s a real thing!  I am fairly certain that we taught Avery and Emerson how to spell and write their middle names as early as pre-school.  Can’t say we did the same for Harper…we somehow forgot to teach her how to spell her middle name!  We only realized it when halfway through the year of first grade, she showed us the daily free art/writing that made at school that day.  It took us a solid few minutes to figure out that Paga was Paige!  Shame on Mommy and Daddy for forgetting to teach Harper how to spell her middle name!  Kuddos to Harper for taking matters into her own hands!

Proudly displayed in our closet, where Harper regularly tapes up her artwork while Mommy and Daddy aren’t looking!

We needed a great weekend and after a really long week work (as in more hours than I have worked since prior to having kids and having to put work ahead of the girls in the evenings), when 5:00 p.m. came Friday, I made up my mind that I was going to be intentional, loving, and slow down.

Emerson received a kid’s baking cookbook for Christmas.  She had showed me a few of the recipes she flagged.  I thought to myself what good was giving her a cookbook if I never had the time to make anything with her!  I set out four eggs before she came home from school…once they got to room temperature, I called her downstairs so we could spend time together in the kitchen making a cake.  She made the zebra cake from scratch….I was so proud of her and she cherished the quality one-on-one time.

The cake was done just in time for me to put dinner in the oven.  We had a great meal (southwestern chicken balls with roasted red pepper sauce) and dinner conversation.  In fact, we had “homerun” dinners four nights last week…food was superb and conversation great, which was pretty amazing considering I worked late hours all last week.  A lot of prep work on Sunday and Justin’s help during the week still made it possible.

Fast forward to dessert time, the girls were so excited to eat Emerson’s creation!

Saturday morning was Harper and Daddy’s one-on-one date.  She had filled her marble jar the week prior and picked her “best bud” for their date.  She had known she wanted to go mini golfing when the time came since her first date night which was intended to be mini golfing in the summer got cut short on the fourth hole due to severe thunderstorms.  Saturday was bitter cold and windy…and I mean bone chilling winds and temperatures.  They golfed anyway in the frigid temperatures.  Their date also included breakfast at the Vienna Inn, a pit-stop at home to warm-up after golf which included some T.V watching and candy eating, and lunch at CAVA.  Harper loved her date with her “best bud”.

Meanwhile, Saturday morning, I got to spend some time with Avery and Emerson.  My nails were in desperate need of getting done.  I took them with me to the salon but didn’t make appointments for them.  They were disappointed at first but used the time wisely and did their reading and multiplication tables.  They knew that if they completed their work, we would have time to buy some quick drying nail polish and stop at Michaels for some clay.  We did both and even ran into Papa in the shopping center….he may have been stalking us as he knew where we were from a phone call earlier!

I then treated the girls to lunch out…something we do not do frequently on the weekends.  It felt amazing to be able to go to SweetLeaf and have the girls both be able to find something to order on the menu which they actually liked!  A mouthwatering brussel and pear salad for me that also included bacon, goat cheese, kale, lime pepitas, and sweet potato. 

A quesadilla with a side of bacon for Emerson and a turkey and bacon sandwich for Avery.

All five of us met at home at 1:00, just in time to make our way to our 2:00 home renovation related appointment.  We took the girls with us and they each had workbooks and spelling words to complete. Imagine their delight when we were told they had a theatre room for kids.  A deal was made to work for 25 minutes and then it could be theatre time.  Our appointment was close to two hours, so these girls were in heaven watching Sam and Kat on the big screen in the middle of the day.

When we got home, all five of us spent an hour cleaning and organizing piles of our own papers, schoolwork, bins, desk, etc.  It is amazing how staying on top of organizing and doing a little bit here and there keeps the situation from becoming overwhelming.  The girls were very cooperative despite not being too into it.

A quick dinner was in order Saturday night and we made do with what we had in the house so that we could be in and out of the kitchen in a reasonable time. It was movie night and that was the priority.  Often the girls fight about which movie to watch.  Emerson would like to watch adult movies all day long and Avery would like a cartoon or pretend movie.  I intervened and found a mermaid movie that I thought would suit all….Scales was the name.  It was rated PG and there were definitely some references to a period and a girl coming of age!  It was weird, and had some scary parts, but it was also good.  I know they liked it as they have already spent their 30 minutes of Netflix time a day that they earn watching portions of it and even last night watched it at my parents’ house (they slept over last night since no school today for Super Tuesday).

Sunday morning, we were planning on going to Church.  I knew it was critical for me to go since I haven’t been going much recently.  Kids learn by actions.  I also knew it was important for me to have my me time before Church.  So rise and shine 6:15 a.m. on a Sunday….something I never thought I would do in a million years.  I woke up, did my affirmations, gratitude journal, 15-minute jog, and yoga.  I even showered and put on some make-up before leaving for church at 8:45.  I even sat through church…well all but the last three minutes!  I dressed down so that the second hour when their girls were in the 10:00 class, I could go for a walk to finish my workout.  I had a great walk exploring some new streets around Vienna that I hadn’t been on before listening to a combination of the book Languages of Love and some country music during my 40-minute walk.  I ended my walk at Whole Foods so I could get a jump start on the grocery shopping.  I moved quickly around the perimeter of the store and only had about five minutes of shopping left when Justin and the girls arrived at 11:15!  A quick trip home to drop off the groceries and then we were back out.

Lunch at home is our norm, but we end up spending so much time in the kitchen so I decided we would eat lunch out again before heading to some open houses. I wanted to check out a few open houses, so we were really thinking through the right approach with our home reno process…do we truly want to do a home reno?  Is it better to move?  So much to think about!  Anyway, lunch was so good at SweetLeaf that we went back Sunday.  The girls thought I was crazy!  I had the same delicious salad, Justin had the same, and the girls all were very satisfied with their choices!

Then it was open house time.  The girls had a blast and love sharing their opinions of what they think we should do and shouldn’t do to our house.  We had to cut the last open house short as we had promised the girls that with good behavior, we would take them ice-skating.  Skatequest in Reston had public skating for two hours from 3:10 to 5:10.  We made it on the ice about 3:45 and after the first five minutes, I thought to myself this is going to be a long 90 minutes!  The girls had a great time.  Emerson and Harper grateful for us finally taking them (it was their first time) and Avery grateful for going again (it was her third time).  There were some falls but they all had a great time and were very appreciative of us taking them. They were all pretty impressed with their skills too!

Dinner….I had quickly prepped some boneless pork loin chops earlier in the day and Justin grilled them along with orange cauliflower and brussels.  I even made mashed potatoes as Emerson has been asking for awhile.  A basil avocado sauce to top it all off…and wowzers…it was phenomenal.

A truly bitterly cold glorious weekend.

Presenting Ms. Eleanor Roosevelt….

and Ms. Nadia Comaneci…

These two worked really hard this past month on identifying their famous historical figure to research and become.  They read books, researched facts, and made a report.  On the day of the actual museum, parents and students came and the kids presented their three facts.  Avery and Emerson memorized their facts…Emerson even changed hers up when she was getting bored of repeating the same ones over and over.

They spoke clearly and confidently.  I am so proud of my old Eleanor and young Nadia.

Since starting this blog, I have committed to this space at least twice a month. Yet here it is February 22 and I have yet to visit this month.  Life has been busy and stressful.  Avery and Harper have still had some sick days, Justin and I have many appointments related to our home renovation, we’ve have had quarterly teacher meetings, we sold and distributed Girl Scout Cookies, Justin has been busy trying to figure out care for his dad relating to his dementia, my dad had surgery for early stage kidney cancer, the girls have had a few weekend play dates, and on top of that Justin and I have been working very demanding full time jobs and somehow juggling the girls extra-curricular activities.

So while I have been MIA some from this space and we have been running around like crazy people, we are trying to start each day right by being grateful, positive, and mindful!

January 1 Avery came down with the flu.  It’s January 24 and this is what our January has looked like to date:

• Flu – Avery, Mommy, Emerson, Harper
• Ear infection and throat infection – Mommy
• Stomach Bug – Avery and Emerson

The girls have missed school, I have missed work.  We have stayed in doors and been taking it easy.  We have ordered a lot of takeout and done a lot of laundry.

Truly, it could be a lot worse though…so we’ll get through this long four day weekend and keep our fingers crossed that we go into next school week healthy and renewed!