{"id":6533,"date":"2020-04-09T13:38:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T17:38:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/?p=6533"},"modified":"2020-04-09T13:38:32","modified_gmt":"2020-04-09T17:38:32","slug":"papa-is-70","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/?p=6533","title":{"rendered":"Papa is 70!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My dad (papa) is 70!\u00a0 Tuesday was his 70<sup>th<\/sup> birthday!\u00a0 It doesn\u2019t seem possible, nor does it seem possible that I am 40!\u00a0 My days have always gone by quick and the months and years even quicker!\u00a0 In some respects a lot has happened since the days I was a teenager and my dad was in his 40\u2019s.\u00a0 At the same time, those days still remain vivid memories.\u00a0 His hair, what is left anyway, is all gray and thin.\u00a0 Yet in my head, my dad still has a full head of black hair.\u00a0 My perspective may not be reality; however, it is my reality.<\/p>\n<p>My dad is not a huge partier and originally didn\u2019t want to do anything special for his 70<sup>th<\/sup> other than a simple dinner with family.\u00a0 However, I think he realized that not only do you turn 70 only once, but that turning 70 is a gift\u2026a gift worth celebrating!\u00a0 He became excited about the prospect of a celebration and so we decided on dinner at The Palm.\u00a0 It was supposed to be him, my mom, Justin, myself, the girls, Russell and Mary, and Mike and Susan.\u00a0 A few weeks ago, we realized that dinner was not going to happen.\u00a0 We are in midst of a pandemic\u2026.schools closed, restaurants closed, workers teleworking, the world social isolating and quarantining.\u00a0 Even as I type it, this situation seems unreal.<\/p>\n<p>Hugging and kissing are out of the question as is entering my parents house and vice versa.\u00a0 Sunday we paid a driveway visit to my parents as a way to say hello from afar.\u00a0 We also dropped off my dad\u2019s present giving it a few days to sit and rid itself of any potential germs.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6545\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/17ac1782-d924-4356-ac00-84c452372534-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/17ac1782-d924-4356-ac00-84c452372534.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/17ac1782-d924-4356-ac00-84c452372534-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/17ac1782-d924-4356-ac00-84c452372534-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/17ac1782-d924-4356-ac00-84c452372534-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/>While I am sure my dad was disappointed that we couldn\u2019t celebrate as we originally planned or truly even together, I still wanted to make the day special. \u00a0And I think we did.\u00a0 For surely, it was a unique birthday and one in which I am sure he will never forget!<\/p>\n<p>We started the day with some birthday videos and a FaceTime call.\u00a0 I ordered crab cakes over the weekend from G&amp;M along with some She-crab soup.\u00a0 Late afternoon, I made mashed potatoes and garlic green beans and a delicious healthy coconut cake with lemon buttercream.\u00a0 I cut it in half and we kept half!\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6551\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7620-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7620-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7620-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7620-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7620-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We piled in the van at 5:30 and headed to their house.\u00a0 We stood at one end of the driveway and them the other.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6543\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8d0424ef-4803-468d-a3ac-736b1d7c99b7-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8d0424ef-4803-468d-a3ac-736b1d7c99b7.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8d0424ef-4803-468d-a3ac-736b1d7c99b7-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8d0424ef-4803-468d-a3ac-736b1d7c99b7-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8d0424ef-4803-468d-a3ac-736b1d7c99b7-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He opened his presents which included some homemade crafts from the girls and a \u201cvintage 1950\u2019s t-shirt.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6542\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/e3ec0138-c887-4480-bc67-2907515fc63d-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"779\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/e3ec0138-c887-4480-bc67-2907515fc63d.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/e3ec0138-c887-4480-bc67-2907515fc63d-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He enjoyed the poster that I put together over the weekend that documented his life in pictures from the time he was a little boy!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6547\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/0cf42c5c-5373-43f0-9827-c09124db5da6-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/0cf42c5c-5373-43f0-9827-c09124db5da6.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/0cf42c5c-5373-43f0-9827-c09124db5da6-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/0cf42c5c-5373-43f0-9827-c09124db5da6-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/0cf42c5c-5373-43f0-9827-c09124db5da6-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We \u201cshared\u201d a bottle of wine by bringing our own wine glasses and having a no-touch pour in the middle of the driveway.\u00a0 The girls decorated the driveway.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6539\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ac3e4b2c-650c-4495-b659-3d528b244a75.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1009\" height=\"757\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ac3e4b2c-650c-4495-b659-3d528b244a75.jpg 1009w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ac3e4b2c-650c-4495-b659-3d528b244a75-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ac3e4b2c-650c-4495-b659-3d528b244a75-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/ac3e4b2c-650c-4495-b659-3d528b244a75-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1009px) 100vw, 1009px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>My parents enjoyed their dinner together and when it was time for cake, they Facetimed us so we could sing happy birthday again!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6535\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/9e31c38a-eb58-47bb-b461-5e22323d463f-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/9e31c38a-eb58-47bb-b461-5e22323d463f.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/9e31c38a-eb58-47bb-b461-5e22323d463f-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/9e31c38a-eb58-47bb-b461-5e22323d463f-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/9e31c38a-eb58-47bb-b461-5e22323d463f-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We took a break from eating our dinner, which looked identical to theirs!\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-6549\" src=\"http:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7624-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7624-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7624-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7624-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IMG_7624-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We will celebrate at The Palm in time when this all passes.\u00a0 Until then, I hope he enjoyed the thoughtfulness behind this year\u2019s celebration.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My dad (papa) is 70!\u00a0 Tuesday was his 70th birthday!\u00a0 It doesn\u2019t seem possible, nor does it seem possible that I am 40!\u00a0 My days have always gone by quick and the months and years even quicker!\u00a0 In some respects &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/themaddlife.com\/?p=6533\">Continue reading <span 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